Sometimes, when I dismiss other’s help, I don’t realize that I am being indelicate to other’s feelings. Though it is not my intention, I realize that it has been happening frequently. When others offer their help out of the genuine kindness of their heart and I disallow it; I can see why it is a smack to the face for the person. However, it is also part of my personality to politely decline and reject. It’s not because I despise the person or have anything against them. I just feel more comfortable doing things on my own.